Family therapy is a way of working with families to help them to solve problems, develop strategies to manage their difficulties, and become happier and more fulfilled. It also provides a way for families to get to know each other better and learn more about what matters to them.

It’s important to understand that all families struggle at one point or another, and there’s nothing wrong with accepting support. Many families benefit from an objective, third-party point of view, and they appreciate having the chance to talk openly. Are you considering group therapy for your family? Taking this step can be challenging, but we believe all parties will benefit from it. To give you an idea of what to expect, we’ve outlined the four main goals of family therapy below.

The 4 Most Common Goals of Family Therapy

1. Working to Understand Family Dynamics in a Safe Environment

Family therapists focus on achieving this goal within the first few sessions. Before they can help, they need to know what your family’s situation is. For instance, a therapist might ask why you sought out family therapy. They may want to know about previous conflicts, prior incidents and current concerns. Family therapists work to understand patterns of behavior in a family and what can be done to improve them. Discussing family dynamics at home may lead to conflict, and this can be a major roadblock for everyone. In a safe environment, however, everyone is encouraged to be open and honest.

2. Examining and Reforming Communication Styles

In family therapy, the most crucial goal is to communicate. For some families, this may be especially difficult. A family therapist will help you engage and interact in a way that is respectful. With that being said, initiating communication is only the first step. From there, families will learn how to communicate effectively. This means listening to each other, speaking with empathy and understanding each other’s needs. 

3. Improving the Family’s Problem-Solving Skills

In most cases, family therapists won’t try to pin down the exact cause of a problem. It’s common for individuals to point the finger at one another when this occurs, which does little to help the healing process. Instead, your therapist will focus on learning to problem-solve. Additionally, they’ll ask about a stressful situation and how the family responded to it. This will help them better understand the behavioral patterns that typically lead to conflict. When families understand their habits, they’ll also be better equipped to change them. 

4. Reducing Pressure Points and Conflict Escalation

The ultimate goal of family therapy is to limit conflict, not to eliminate it completely. Families will always have challenges to face, but family therapy can help you face them with candor. Ideally, families should walk away feeling a weight lifted from their shoulders. Each family member should be able to communicate openly and problem-solve rather than escalating conflict unnecessarily.

Receive the Benefits of Family Therapy at Lead4Life, Inc.

Could your family benefit from family therapy? Visit our website and check out our Family Therapy programs for more information, or contact us at 240-499-8949. At Lead4Life, we strive to empower every participant in our programs so that they may find their purpose, achieve their goals, and become poised, productive members of their community. We advocate for those in need and assist each and every individual by providing compassionate education and valuable resources and tools so that they can make the very best decisions and develop important life, social, and competency skills.

Video games, social media, and online education have become the norm for kids today. In a 2003-2004 study by the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey, it was found that kids were sedentary for 7 hours daily. By 2009, that number had increased to 8.6 hours, or 62% of daily waking hours. Today, this problem has only worsened; even parents struggle to make time for regular exercise. Sedentary activity is widespread across the nation, and this makes staying active more important than ever.

Youth sports are a great way to keep kids on their feet. Additionally, it can help develop their social skills, build confidence, and teach them important life lessons. Read more to find out why youth sports are important and how they can benefit your child.

Regular Exercise and a Way to Release Energy

Kids are full of energy, and they need a physical outlet of some kind. Youth sports encourage children to release their feelings in a positive way. In addition, it helps them stay healthy. According to the Mayo Clinic, kids 6 years and older need at least one hour a day of moderate to vigorous activity. Vigorous activity (such as running, hiking or riding a bike) is recommended at least 3 days out of the week. By signing up for youth sports, kids will automatically have a chance to exercise and have fun while doing it. 

Forming Close Friendships with Teammates

By participating in youth sports, kids have the chance to get to know their teammates and build meaningful connections. If your child is struggling to meet friends, this can be a great way to introduce them to other kids in the community. Together, teammates learn how to depend on one another and work towards a common goal. Team sports also teach them that in order to succeed, they have to support each other.

Learning How to Lose

In youth sports, winning a game or a competition can be exciting and rewarding. However, it’s likely that at some point, your child’s team will lose. This is an excellent learning experience, as it shows kids how to cope with failure. As they grow, your children will face many complex challenges and pitfalls. Perseverance and learning how to lose are highly valuable skills. Similarly, when teams win, it’s equally important for kids to learn how to win respectfully. There are few other activities in which kids can encounter concepts of failure and success in such a direct way.

Finally, it’s essential to recognize that youth sports aren’t for everyone. While you shouldn’t hesitate to encourage your child to take part in any sport they enjoy, no child should feel pressured. If they try youth sports and tell you they aren’t benefiting from it, listen. In the future, they can try many other engaging activities that interest them.

Learn More about Youth Sports at Lead4Life, Inc.

At Lead4Life, we strive to empower every participant in our programs so that they may find their purpose, achieve their goals, and become poised, productive members of their community. We advocate for those in need and assist each and every individual by providing compassionate education and valuable resources and tools so that they can make the very best decisions and develop important life, social, and competency skills.

Does your child need a non-parent mentor? Visit our website and check out our mentoring initiative for more information, or contact us at 240-499-8949.